We are all calmer and therefore much happier. We parents deal with things that come up with much more ease and humor, and as a result the children somehow are more considerate of us and our wishes.
The effects of our change in parenting are now clear. In spite of being in a stressful time (responsibilities in careers, professional training, Christmas approaching), things at home are running smoothly, harmoniously. Of course, there are exceptions but those donāt even really bother us anymore!